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Root Rebuild · Private coaching

You’ve built a life
that looks good.
So why doesn’t it
feel fulfilling?

And why, underneath everything you’ve accomplished, do you still not feel good enough?

90 days to rewire the subconscious beliefs shaping your identity and relationships, so you can trust yourself and live authentically.

Apply for Root Rebuild

A short application. A conversation about fit.

90 days of private supportWeekly one-on-one sessionsYour personal Root Map

What stays unspoken

Asking for support.
Saying what hurts.
Admitting what you want.

It’s difficult to let someone see that much of you when you expect criticism, rejection, or to feel weak for having needs.

So those needs stay unspoken. The same behaviors keep repeating. And staying busy only takes you so far from what’s unresolved.

Root Rebuild is where we work on the beliefs underneath those responses.

A life with room for you

Speak honestly.
Let people close.
Feel at peace
with yourself.

How we get there
  1. 01

    Ask for support without questioning your worth.

  2. 02

    Stay present in difficult conversations and say what you mean.

  3. 03

    Enjoy your own company without loneliness choosing your relationships.

  4. 04

    Make room for work, friendships, and experiences you actually want.

  5. 05

    Trust yourself enough to make a different choice, even when you don’t know how it will turn out.

The Root Rebuild process

Knowing your patterns is the beginning.
Rewiring the beliefs behind
your behavior is the work.

01

Surface

What happened?

We identify a specific situation or behavior you keep repeating, including how you responded.

02

Signal

What is your reaction telling you?

We examine what you assumed, what you expected, and what you were trying to prevent, protect, or prove.

03

Script

What rule is running underneath it?

We uncover the subconscious belief directing your response and how childhood and past experiences shaped it.

04

Shift

What becomes possible once you see it?

We work on rewiring that belief and practicing a different response. You begin to experience a version of yourself you haven’t had room to know.

Someone who trusts their needs, their judgment,
and their ability to handle uncertainty.

Your Root Read

Made for you

Your
Root Map.

Childhood & past experiencesWhat you learned to believeHow you respond todayWhat becomes possible

Understand the roots.
Make a different choice.

The 90-day experience

Personal work.
Private support.

Weekly one-on-one coaching

Focused time to work through what’s happening in your life and put change into practice.

Your personal Root Map

A clear picture of how your childhood and past experiences connect to how you see yourself and respond today.

Private text support

Support between sessions as you bring the work into your everyday life.

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Mary, founder of Your Root Read
Mary Identity & relationship transformation

The person behind the work

I’m Mary.
I look for what’s
underneath.

As a child, understanding people helped me navigate what came next. I learned to read a room, anticipate needs, and notice what went unsaid. I became highly perceptive about others while my own needs went unmet.

That analytical ability later served me in finance, where I made complex systems understandable by seeing the structures, decisions, and people behind the numbers.

I had a career, travel, friendships, and a stable relationship. Still, nothing felt like enough, because I didn’t feel enough.

More of my story

My search for answers included ten years of therapy, studying IFS and the Gottman approach, and my own work in Adult Children of Alcoholics. The deepest change came through rebuilding what I believed about myself and following through in my relationships, choices, and work.

As an identity transformational coach, I help you make sense of what drives your behavior and turn that understanding into an authentic way of living.

Analytical enough
to see the pattern.

Compassionate enough
to understand it.

Direct enough
to challenge it.

Your next chapter

Live a life
of fulfillment.
With room
to be yourself.

Tell me what keeps happening and what you want to change. Then we’ll talk about whether Root Rebuild is right for you.

Private coaching with Mary · 90 days

Let’s begin

Apply to work with Mary

A short application. No commitment until we’ve spoken.

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In the meantime, you can contact Mary about Root Rebuild.

Email Mary

A little clarity

Before
you apply.

What happens after I apply?

I’ll review your application, then we’ll arrange a call to discuss your needs, answer your questions, and determine whether we’re a good fit. Applying does not commit you to the program.

Do I need to be in a relationship?

No. This work starts with your relationship with yourself, whether you’re partnered, single, or between relationships. It extends into friendships, family, and work.

What does rewiring mean?

Working on changing what you believe about yourself, what you deserve, and what you expect from others, then putting that change into practice through your choices and responses.

What kind of support is this?

Root Rebuild is transformational coaching. It does not provide mental health treatment, addiction treatment, or crisis care. We’ll discuss whether coaching meets your needs on our call.

How does private text support work?

You can reach out between sessions about what comes up as you put our work into practice. We’ll agree on availability and response times before beginning. Text support is not an emergency service.